From Situationships To Soulmate Love: How to Attract a Committed, Devoted Man
- Nathallie Hughes
- Feb 10
- 5 min read
He wants you... but he’s just going through a lot right now.
He wants you... but he’s not ready for a serious commitment.
He wants you... but his work is so hectic he just needs to get his career settled before he can be with you.
If any of those sound familiar. Today's blog post is for you.
Your cycle of “he wants to be with me he just can’t right now” will turn into a clearly defined commitment with a man who clearly wants to love you when you normalize being seen, honored, and loved for your too-much-ness. Let's talk about it.
You grew up with parents, and a society, that said you weren’t really lovable.
Indirectly (and directly), they said you were too loud, too sassy, too opinionated, too fat, too imperfect, and just too needy. Their comments and actions made you undeserving of love, devotion, and unconditional acceptance.
As a natural consequence of your past, you normalized being rejected for being yourself. Over time, you learned to expect people to shriek away when you display your too-much-ness.
This is why, loving you is always “too much” for the guy to handle.
🤷🏾♀️ He wants you, but he’s just going through a lot right now.
🤷🏾♀️ He wants you, but he’s not ready for a serious commitment.
🤷🏾♀️ He wants you, but his work is so hectic he just needs to get his career settled before he can be with you.
There’s a million different scenarios, but the underlying story is the same: loving you takes more energy and effort than he “is capable” of giving. It’s not random. And it’s not normal, either.
This is your experience because it is your expectation. And it will not change until you change it.
Here’s what I know for sure 👇
You will attract a clearly defined commitment with a man who clearly wants to love you when you normalize being seen, honored, and loved for your too-much-ness.
Being seen, honored, and loved for your too-much-ness is not:
❌ He loves me even though I’m so needy sometimes.
❌ He loves me even though I’ve gained some weight.
❌ He loves me even though I talk too much.
Being seen, honored, and loved for your too-much-ness is:
✅ He loves to hold me after a long day. He feels proud to be the man that I call when I need help.
✅ He adores my body— he’s always grabbing me and caressing me and kissing me all over.
✅ My husband can listen to me talk all day. He loves my mind, he loves the sound of my voice, and he always asks me questions to hear more. 🥹
Dream dynamics like that don’t happen on accident. They don’t happen because of prayer or pleading or being a good girl and eventually getting rewarded by God (seriously, you don't have to earn this kind of love). These dynamics happen because of expectation.
You want:
💖 A man who sends you love notes throughout the day telling you that he’s thinking of you.
💖 A man who makes lemonade out of his current circumstances: he’s never too swamped, tired, or broke to show up for you. He comes up with creative solutions to see you and treat you and connect with you because he truly wants to be with you.
💖 A man who learns you so he can love you properly.
💖 A man who immediately says yes to your request for flowers and romantic gifts because making you feel happy and cherished is an obvious priority for him.
As the woman who has been neglected, rejected, and ostracized; you subconsciously expect to be left hanging, abandoned, and unwanted. Your only job now is to change that.
To do this, you need to normalize the opposite of your past: normalize being seen, honored, and loved for your too-much-ness.
Normalize being with a man who loves to take care of your needs.
Normalize being with a man who loves the soft curve of your body— who loves the feel and squeeze of your thick thighs, tummy, arms, back, and breasts!
Internally, you need to make it normal for you to truly be loved. That happens through practice.
Magnetic To Matrimony is the ultimate digital journaling guide made to continuously take your mind to the state of unconditional acceptance, devotion, and adoration. With over 40 guided scripting prompts, you will develop, strengthen, and embody the expectation of having true, committed love.
And as you mentally and energetically become the woman who is seen, honored, and loved by her soulmate… you become magnetic to the commitment that you seek. He simply must show up. The circumstances must change.
Like they did with my client Bella who went from a year long situationship to an official commitment, and a date to meet his parents, after one session with me.
Whether you have a soulmate in mind or not, your energy is determining the level of commitment you have— and this powerful journal will shift things in your favor.
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Wishing you a great year ahead full of love,
NathHughes
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I'm Nathallie Hughes: a luxury obsessed life, mindset, & manifestation coach. I help professional women co-create emotionally fulfilled, purpose driven lives for themselves!
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